Are you currently accepting new clients?

Yes. We are currently welcoming new individual and couples clients across Virginia, Florida, Washington DC, and Maryland — both in person at our Fairfax, VA and Miami, FL offices and via secure telehealth.

What happens during the free consultation?

The free 15-minute consultation is a low-pressure phone call. We'll talk briefly about what brings you in, answer any questions you have about our approach, and help you figure out which therapist might be the best fit. There's no commitment required — it's just a conversation.

How do I schedule a free consultation?

The easiest way is to use our online booking link — you can pick a time that works in about 60 seconds. Click Book a Free Consultation in the navigation bar, or visit our Schedule page. If you'd prefer to reach out first, you can also use our contact page and we'll respond within one business day.

What should I expect in my first paid session?

Your first session is mostly intake — your therapist will ask about your background, what's bringing you in, your goals, and any relevant history. You won't be expected to go deep on your first visit. Think of it as a mutual conversation to understand each other and establish a direction. Sessions are 45–50 minutes depending on your therapist.

What actually happens in a sex therapy session? Will I be asked to do anything sexual?

No — and this is the most common misconception about sex therapy. Sessions are fully clothed, conducted in a standard therapy office or via secure video, and there is no physical contact of any kind. We talk: about your experiences, emotions, relationships, history, and goals. You may be given exercises to practice privately at home between sessions, but nothing happens in the room that wouldn't happen in any other form of therapy.

What is the difference between sex therapy and regular therapy?

Sex therapy is a specialized form of psychotherapy focused on sexual health, functioning, and intimacy. Our therapists hold advanced credentials — including AASECT certification — that go well beyond standard licensure. This training equips them to address concerns like sexual dysfunction, desire discrepancy, sexual trauma, and intimacy in ways that most general therapists are not trained or equipped to do.

Can I come alone if my partner won't join me?

Absolutely. Individual sex therapy is effective and appropriate even when a partner isn't present or isn't ready to participate. Many clients work through deeply personal concerns — sexual trauma, low desire, anxiety, body image, or sexual dysfunction — entirely on their own. If couples work becomes relevant later, that's a conversation we can have when the time is right.

Do I have to talk about things I'm not ready to discuss?

No. You set the pace. Our therapists are trained to follow your lead, and you are never pressured to share more than you're comfortable with. Building a sense of safety in the room is always the first priority — the deeper work follows from there.

How long does therapy typically take?

It depends on your goals. Some clients address a focused concern in 8–12 sessions. Others work with us for a year or more on deeper relational or trauma-related issues. Your therapist will discuss realistic timelines with you early on, and you'll revisit them as the work evolves. Progress is always the measure — not time.

How often will we meet?

Weekly sessions are our standard recommendation. Consistent, regular sessions tend to produce the most meaningful and lasting progress. Bi-weekly scheduling is available in some circumstances. We generally don't recommend monthly sessions — the gap between appointments limits continuity and momentum.

Is everything I share completely confidential?

Yes. Everything discussed in sessions is strictly confidential under HIPAA and professional ethics standards. There are narrow, legally required exceptions — such as if we have reason to believe someone is in immediate danger — and your therapist will explain these clearly in your first session. What you share about your sexuality, relationships, history, or identity will never be disclosed without your explicit written consent.

I'm embarrassed to talk about sex with a stranger. Is that normal?

Completely normal — and expected. Most clients feel some version of this before their first session, and many describe it as the thing they were most worried about. Our therapists have heard it all, and they're specifically trained to make these conversations feel less daunting over time. The free 15-minute consultation is a good first step: a short, low-stakes call that lets you get a sense of us before committing to anything.

Do you work with LGBTQ+ clients and non-traditional relationship structures?

Yes, wholeheartedly. Cushing Counseling is an affirming, judgment-free practice. We welcome clients of all sexual orientations, gender identities, and relationship structures — including non-monogamous, polyamorous, and kink-aware individuals and couples. You do not need to explain or justify who you are here. Our therapists are trained in LGBTQ+ affirming care and approach every client with genuine respect and curiosity.

Do you work with individuals, couples, or both?

Both. We offer individual therapy, couples therapy, and integrated couples and sex therapy. Some clients start individually and bring a partner in later. Others come as a couple from the start. We'll help you figure out the right format during your free consultation.

What does therapy cost?

Session rates vary by therapist: Vanessa Cushing, LPC, CST (AASECT Certified) — $350 / 50 min. Radiance Sanneman, LCPC — $210 / 50 min. Alexandria Da Ponte Cheatham — $175 / 50 min. Noelle Harris, LMSW — $165 / 45 min individual, $220 / couples session. Every new client receives a complimentary 15-minute telephone consultation at no cost.

Do you accept insurance?

We are a private-pay, out-of-network practice and do not bill insurance directly. However, we partner with Thrizer, which allows many clients to use their out-of-network mental health benefits automatically — so you may pay significantly less than the full session rate, depending on your plan.

What is Thrizer and how does it work?

Thrizer is a service that verifies your out-of-network insurance coverage upfront and collects only your estimated share at the time of service. They file the claim automatically after each appointment and your reimbursement comes directly from your insurer. No superbill wrangling, no waiting on reimbursements, no paperwork on your end.

Can I get a superbill to submit to my insurance myself?

Yes. We can provide a superbill at any time — a detailed receipt that includes diagnosis codes, procedure codes, and your therapist's credentials. Just ask your therapist and we'll generate one for any session.

Do you offer sliding scale or reduced rates?

We have a limited number of reduced-fee spots available. If cost is a barrier to starting therapy, please mention it during your free consultation and we'll do our best to find an option that works.

What is your cancellation policy?

We ask for at least 24 hours' notice to cancel or reschedule. Late cancellations and no-shows may be charged the full session fee. We understand that life happens — please just reach out as soon as you know.

What payment methods do you accept?

All fees are collected via credit card on the day of your session, automatically. Your card is kept securely on file — there are no invoices or checks to manage.

Where are your offices located?

We have two physical locations: Fairfax, Virginia — 12875 Yates Ford Rd, Clifton, VA 20124. Miami, Florida — 244 Biscayne Blvd, Miami, FL 33132. We also see clients throughout Virginia, Florida, Washington DC, and Maryland via secure telehealth.

Do you offer online therapy?

Yes. All of our therapists offer HIPAA-compliant telehealth sessions via secure video. Many clients prefer telehealth for the flexibility and privacy it offers. Session quality and fees are the same whether you meet in person or online.

Is telehealth as effective as in-person therapy?

Research consistently shows that telehealth is equally effective as in-person therapy for the concerns we treat — including sexual dysfunction, trauma, desire issues, and relationship challenges. Many clients actually find it easier to open up from the comfort and privacy of their own space.

What states do you serve via telehealth?

We are currently licensed to see telehealth clients in Virginia, Florida, Washington DC, and Maryland. If you are located outside these states, reach out and we can discuss your options or provide a referral.

How do I choose which therapist to work with?

Start with our About Us page to read about each therapist's training, style, and areas of focus. Practical factors like fee and availability matter too. If you're not sure, mention it during your free consultation — we'll help match you with the best fit. It's also completely fine to try a first session and reassess.

What is AASECT certification?

AASECT stands for the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists. The AASECT Certified Sex Therapist credential is the gold standard in the field. Earning it requires a master's or doctoral degree in a mental health discipline, hundreds of hours of specialized training in human sexuality, supervised clinical hours with a certified supervisor, and ongoing continuing education. Vanessa Cushing holds this certification, placing her among a small number of AASECT-certified sex therapists in the country.

What specialties does the practice cover?

Cushing Counseling therapists collectively specialize in sex therapy and sexual dysfunction, couples therapy and intimacy, trauma therapy and sexual trauma recovery, LGBTQ+ affirming care, and Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy.

Our team · 4 min read

Dr. Elizabeth Wolfe, PsyD — Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Certified couples and sex therapist, doctoral-level psychologist, and the clinician who extends this practice beyond Virginia and Florida.

Written and clinically reviewed by Vanessa Cushing, LPC, NCC, MS — AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist, licensed in Virginia & Florida. The Cushing Counseling team covers Virginia, DC, Maryland & Florida.

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The short answer

Dr. Elizabeth Wolfe is a licensed clinical psychologist (PsyD) and a certified couples and sex therapist. She works with individuals and couples on desire, arousal, intimacy, infidelity and the conflict cycles underneath them, using emotionally focused and behavioral couples therapy. Sessions are held by secure video, and the first 15 minutes are free.

Book a free 15-minute consultation

If desire, intimacy or the same argument on repeat is what brought you here, start with fifteen free minutes rather than a commitment.

Who she is

Elizabeth Wolfe holds a doctorate in clinical psychology and is licensed as a clinical psychologist. She is certified in couples and sex therapy and holds a certification in sexual trauma, and she has spent her career working with the overlap the two create — the point where a couple's conflict and one partner's sexual history stop being separate problems.

She is a doctoral-level psychologist, which matters here for a specific and practical reason: psychologists can practise across state lines through an interstate compact that counselors cannot use. That is what allows this practice to see clients well beyond Virginia and Florida for the first time.

What she works with

She sees individuals and couples. Plenty of the individual work is about a relationship — you do not need a partner in the room to start.

Low desire, and desire that shifted after children, medication or a medical event
Desire discrepancy — one partner wanting sex far more or far less often than the other
Arousal and orgasm difficulty
Sex after sexual trauma, at whatever pace the work needs to move
Infidelity: the disclosure, the aftermath, and whether repair is possible
Communication and conflict cycles that repeat regardless of the topic
Emotional distance and roommate-phase relationships
Affirming care for LGBTQ+ clients and for non-monogamous relationships

How she works

Her approach is explicitly evidence-based: emotionally focused therapy for the attachment cycle underneath a couple's fights, integrative behavioral couples therapy for the patterns they cannot talk their way out of, and acceptance and commitment therapy for the individual work. In sex therapy specifically that means the sexual difficulty gets treated directly, with structured exercises done privately at home, rather than being handled as a side effect of the relationship and hoped away.

Sex therapy is talk therapy. There is no physical examination, no touching, no undressing and no observation of sexual activity — in her work or anyone's here.

Where she can see you

Her home licence is in Florida. Through the Psychology Interjurisdictional Compact — PSYPACT — a psychologist licensed in a member jurisdiction can provide telepsychology to clients located in the other member jurisdictions, which currently number just over forty and include Virginia, Maryland, the District of Columbia and Texas.

What determines coverage is where you are physically located during the session, not where you grew up or where your mail goes. If you travel for work or split the year between two states, say so on the consultation call and it gets sorted before you book.

Frequently asked questions

Is a psychologist different from a licensed counselor?

Different training route and different licence. A psychologist holds a doctorate (PhD or PsyD) and is licensed by a state board of psychology; a licensed professional counselor holds a master's degree and a counselling licence. Both provide psychotherapy. The practical difference for you is reach — psychologists can practise across state lines through PSYPACT, which counselors cannot use.

How do I know whether my state is covered?

Ask in the free consultation, and say where you will physically be during sessions — that is what determines which clinician can see you, not where you live on paper. The compact roster grows as legislatures opt in, so it is confirmed for your state at the time you book rather than assumed from a list on a page.

Can she see me and my partner together?

Yes. Couples work is central to her practice, and so is seeing one partner individually when the other is not ready. Either is a reasonable place to start.

What does the free consultation involve?

Fifteen minutes by video, no obligation to continue. You describe what is going on, you ask about fees, confidentiality and state coverage, and you decide afterwards — no intake paperwork before that conversation happens.

Are sessions in person?

No — she sees clients by secure, HIPAA-compliant video. That is how the majority of this practice's clients are seen, by preference rather than necessity, and it is what makes multi-state coverage possible at all.

Keep reading

Sex Therapy — Desire, arousal, pain and mismatched libido, in plain terms.
Couples Therapy — Conflict cycles, disconnection and repair after betrayal.

Also on this site

Meet the team — Every clinician, what they treat and where they are licensed.
Fees & Insurance — Per-clinician fees, superbills and out-of-network benefits.
Book a free consultation — Fifteen minutes, by video, with no obligation to continue.
Contact us — Questions about state coverage, scheduling or fit.

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